Stay vs Sell Break-Even.
Selling costs run 7–9% of sale price. The break-even calculator shows when net proceeds from staying overtake selling today — and when they don't.
Selling within three years almost always loses money. Here's why.
Most homeowners underestimate the cost of selling. Selling costs run 7–9% of sale price between agent commissions (5–6%), title and escrow (~1%), and concessions/repairs (~1%). On a $525K sale, that's $36,000–$47,000 — a real number that has to be earned back through appreciation and equity build before the sale "pays off."
The math, simplified
Net proceeds today = current value − selling costs − loan payoff. That's the cash that lands in your account at closing.
Net proceeds five years from now = future value (after appreciation) − future selling costs − reduced loan balance (after 5 more years of principal pay-down). The non-P&I portion of your monthly cost (taxes, insurance, HOA, maintenance) accrues over those years as holding cost — money you'd spend whether or not you stayed in this home, but money you could have avoided by renting somewhere cheaper.
What pushes "stay" to win
- Strong appreciation. A 5% annual market beats a 2% market by a wide margin over five years. Local context matters here — Frisco's recent appreciation is very different from Akron's.
- Long original loan. The longer you've owned, the more of each payment is principal vs interest, accelerating equity build.
- Low non-P&I share. If your taxes, insurance, and HOA total 30% of your monthly payment, holding is cheap. If they total 55% (Texas suburbs with HOA), holding is expensive.
- You'd buy a similar home anyway. If selling means buying a different home of similar cost, you've paid 7% to move sideways. Make sure the new home solves something the old one couldn't.
What pushes "sell" to win
- Stagnant or declining market. If you don't expect appreciation, holding doesn't recover the selling cost.
- High holding costs. Texas, NJ, IL property taxes and HOA-heavy properties make every year of holding expensive in non-equity-building dollars.
- Significant life change. Job relocation, divorce, family restructuring, school zone needs. The math may say stay; life often overrides.
- You'd downsize meaningfully. If selling and buying smaller frees up substantial cash for retirement or investment, the math improves.
Common questions about stay vs sell break-even.
What's a realistic selling cost?
Should I include the cost of buying a new home?
What about renting it out instead of selling?
How does mortgage interest deduction affect this?
What if my home value has appreciated a lot since purchase?
Should I just refinance instead of selling?
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